Blogposts
Putting Twelve-Foot Boards into a Minivan
We’ve been remodeling our home for the past six months. I can’t tell you the jubilation I’m feeling at knowing that there might come a day that won’t require a trip to the hardware store. But unfortunately this isn’t about that. This is about how much of an idiot I can be.
Are You Committed To The Right Thing
I once heard someone say, “People don’t fall in and out of love, they fall in and out of commitment.” This is a mantra that I have taken into my own life, a mantra that I live by. Commitment, more than anything else will have an impact on success.
How To Put Disney Magic In Your Marriage
I’ve been on vacation with the family for the past week, and the Disney Magic amazes me. Since we arrived on the property, Disney has gone out of its way to make us feel special. From the “First-time Visitor” buttons to the cast members calling my kids “princes” or “princesses,” Disney cares about our experience....
A Special Announcement
For the past five years I’ve been working on a project. The project has taken many different forms, different shapes, and lots of different words. That project is a marriage book.
The goal was to create something that would help...
What the 4th of July Can Teach You About Marriage
This year America is celebrating 238 years of existence. It looks good on America, but there are some tough lessons that we have learned along the way. Some of my favorite lessons are ones that are applicable to marriages, and it would do all of us some good to remember the past as we look forward.....
How to Become a Productive Couple
Karen and I are people who are always on the move. I’m in school, we both work, Connor has baseball, and we are on a coed kickball team. Throw in the occasional doctor’s appointment or family gatherings, and every hour of the day feels occupied with something....
I Wouldn’t Want to be Married to Myself (and neither would you)
This past weekend at Ginghamsburg, Pastor Mike talked about something that I found both scary and enlightening. He talked about how we tend to put Jesus into our own worldview, meaning that we want to make Jesus more like us and less like who he really was. As I spent time wrestling with this concept, I came to the clear conclusion that I do the same thing in my marriage....
5 Things I Learned From My Workout Partner That Have Nothing to do With Working Out
For the past two and a half years Dave Hood and I have been meeting at 5:30 in the morning to work out. Okay, we meet most mornings – let’s say three to five times a week. It started because we both wanted to get healthier, and while we didn’t know each other that well it continued because a deep friendship was forged. Over the past several years I’ve learned a lot (or many things) from Dave and from our time working out – here are my top five.....
One Thing You Can Do to Change Your Relationship
I’ve made it no secret that my wife and I have what can sometimes be a volatile relationship. Volatile because we both value passionate discussion and we both love to speak to what we believe. That is part of our uniqueness as a couple and how we are wired as people....
Don't Freeze to Death
An older man was standing in the middle of a log home. With a bundle of firewood in his hands he glared at the stove and said, “If you give me heat, I’ll give you wood.” The old man froze to death....