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Don’t Confuse Emotional with Fragile

I have been in a lot of emotional conversations lately. The people I have been meeting with are really emotional about their position, their situation, and their story.  I love emotional people. I can relate to them; I am one of them. I am pretty sure that with the right motivation I could even create an emotional argument about the type of paper that is best for the Sunday bulletin.

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The Problem With Being The Fun Parent

Last weekend Karen left the nest so that she could go to visit her brother’s growing family. It was a great trip for her, and there was nowhere else in the entire world I wanted her to be. The problem is that when momma is gone the house goes crazy

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5 Reasons Why You and Your Organization Need Tension

When I first got married to Karen, I would run the moment she started to cry. If there was one tear rolling down her face, I was giving in and doing whatever I could to make her feel better. Early in my Army career I would do the same thing, except it would look as if I was not speaking up for something that I knew needed to be done.

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The Time I Made an Eighty-Something-Year-Old Cry

I pride myself on being able to relate to people. I work hard at being authentic and showing up in a way that honors who God is calling me to be.  It just so happened that I was taking questions at an event the other day and I failed miserably at relating.

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Inches to Miles: The Danger of Unspoken Agreements

I need to let you know something: You have unspoken agreements, all of us do. Unspoken agreements are behaviors or actions that we adhere to without giving them verbal permission to be in our lives. 

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Put Me In, Coach!

I just finished another year of coaching t-ball. Caleb was an absolute stud on the field, and it was clear that watching his brother helped him grow into a great t-ball player. As a team we improved as well. The boys learned how to be better hitters, how to scoop the ball with the glove, and some of them even found first base! (It was a miracle, trust me.)

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