#443: Kristen LaValley on Humility, Storytelling, and Leadership Growth Through Community
In this episode of the Follow 2 Lead Podcast, Tony Miltenberger sits down with Kristen LaValley for a meaningful conversation on leadership, humility, identity, and the power of storytelling. Kristen shares why one of the most important leadership skills isn’t confidence—but the willingness to be wrong, learn, and grow.
Tony and Kristen explore how great leaders create safe spaces where people feel seen, heard, and valued. Through her work hosting retreats and writing, Kristen has witnessed firsthand how storytelling can bring healing, clarity, and deeper connection. They discuss how writing becomes a tool for personal growth, helping leaders better understand themselves and lead with authenticity.
The conversation also dives into the role of community in shaping identity and leadership, and how spiritual storytelling can foster transformation in both the storyteller and the listener. Kristen reflects on her own writing journey, emphasizing that leadership is not about having everything figured out—but about showing up with humility, curiosity, and openness to growth.
This episode is a powerful reminder that leadership is deeply human. It’s built through shared stories, honest reflection, and the courage to create environments where people can grow and belong.
Coaching Question:
“Where in your leadership might humility—specifically the willingness to be wrong—unlock deeper trust, growth, and connection?”
Connect with Kristen LaValley:
• Website: kristenlavalley.com
• Instagram: @kristen.lavalley
• Substack: kristenlavalley.substack.com
• Books & author info: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Kristen-LaValley/author/B08FXVKKHY
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